Dolphins swim inside the soul when it's calm, the TV yoga woman says, her face so relaxed it appears infantile. Suddenly, you feel heat, and will need to stay very calm to remind yourself, over and over, how the world is not exactly what you thought it would be, but there are ways to cope. According to enlightened people, humans are being squeezed between Venus and Mars, and may as well revel. You are still sitting there staring at the TV yoga babe when the phone rings, and you do not answer it this time - maybe this is the first time ever you just let it ring.